Online Marriage Counseling · California
Online Marriage Counseling in California
For married couples anywhere in California — from San Diego to San Francisco — who want serious, structured marriage counseling without the commute.
What we treat online
The full marriage — at distance.
Communication breakdown. Affair recovery. Parenting conflict. Financial tension. Sexual disconnection. Pre-divorce discernment. The same work that happens in our offices, delivered with the same intensity over secure video.
- Trust repair after infidelity
- Pre-divorce discernment counseling
- Conflict de-escalation protocols
- Parenting alignment & co-parenting
- Intimacy and sexual reconnection
- In-law and family-system work
Serving every California city
Why clients choose us
Why Clients Choose Self Help LA / OC
A premium marriage counseling and individual therapy practice serving Los Angeles, Orange County, and all of California... built around a proprietary method, not a generic intake form.
Convenient Downey office
8531 Florence Ave, Suite 200 — serving Whittier, Norwalk, Long Beach & southeast LA County.
Convenient Santa Ana office
2101 North Main St, Suite C — serving Anaheim, Irvine, Tustin & central Orange County.
Online counseling across California
Secure sessions for clients anywhere in the state... same clinicians, same protocols.
5-star rated practice
Hundreds of 5 Star Google & Yelp reviews from couples and individuals across Los Angeles and Orange County since 2009.
Proprietary M.I.N.D. Method™
A proven, results oriented structure created to identify deep, hidden subconscious programming and essentially rewriting the code of our own identity which will extract the best versions of ourselves naturally. Drastically different than generic talk therapy.
Specializing in Marriage & Couples Therapy
For nearly 20 yrs couples have been coming to Self Help LA to completely transform their relationships so they can remember how it feels to fall in love all over again.
Find a location near you
Two Southern California offices. Online sessions statewide.
Meet in person at our Downey (LA County) or Santa Ana (Orange County) office. Or work with us from anywhere in California via secure, secure video.
Los Angeles County
Downey Office
8531 Florence Ave, Suite 200
Downey, CA 90240
Serving Whittier, Cerritos, Lakewood, Norwalk, Long Beach & surrounding Los Angeles.
Orange County
Santa Ana Office
2101 North Main St, Suite C
Santa Ana, CA 92706
Serving Anaheim, Irvine, Tustin, Orange, Costa Mesa & surrounding Orange.
FAQ
Online marriage counseling — common questions
Don't see your question? Reach out, we typically respond within one business day.
Yes — when structured properly. We use evidence-based affair-recovery protocols inside The M.I.N.D. Method™, and the format is video or in-person depending on what serves each stage of the work.
Begin
Marriage counseling, without the commute.
Book a confidential 15-minute call with our team. We'll help you name the pattern that's been running your relationship, and recommend a clear next step.
FREE · 15 MINUTES