Online Marriage Counseling · Married Couples · California
Online Marriage Counseling for Married Couples in California
For married couples anywhere in California, from San Diego to San Francisco, who want serious, structured marriage counseling without the commute.
Marriage carries weight that dating does not: shared finances, parenting, extended family, and a commitment both of you have to live inside every day. Spouses often find us while searching for marriage counseling or marriage therapy online. If you are not married, online couples therapy is the better starting point, and the full list of services shows every path.
Recognition
The commute isn't the reason nothing has changed. The pattern is.
Schedules keep winning
You've meant to start for months. Work, kids, and traffic keep making the decision for you.
The same fight follows you
Different week, different topic, identical ending.
Distance in the same house
Polite, functional, and further apart than either of you wants to admit.
You're not sure it's fixable
You want someone to tell you honestly whether this can change, and what it would take.
What we work on online
The full marriage, at distance.
Communication breakdown. Affair recovery. Parenting conflict. Financial tension. Sexual disconnection. Discernment before divorce. The same work that happens in our offices, delivered with the same intensity by video.
- Rebuilding trust after infidelity
- Discernment before divorce
- Conflict calming
- Parenting alignment and coparenting
- Intimacy and sexual reconnection
- Extended family work
Married couples statewide
Sessions run by video anywhere in California. In person marriage counseling is available at our Downey and Santa Ana offices when you would rather be in the room.
Where couples go next
Further reading
Helpful reading before you book
Need More Than a Standard Session?
2 Hour Extended Relationship Session
More time to work through one important relationship issue without stopping just as you get somewhere.
$397
BOOK THE 2 HOUR SESSION4 Hour Urgent Relationship Stabilization
For a recent betrayal, separation conversation, explosive conflict, or a crisis that needs concentrated attention now.
$997
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Why clients choose us
Why Clients Choose Self Help LA
A premium relationship transformation practice serving Los Angeles, Orange County, and all of California... built around a proprietary method, not a generic intake form.
Convenient Downey office
8531 Florence Ave, Suite 200, serving Whittier, Norwalk, Long Beach & southeast LA County.
Convenient Santa Ana office
2101 North Main St, Suite C, serving Anaheim, Irvine, Tustin & central Orange County.
Online counseling across California
Work with us from anywhere in California by video, the same practitioners and the same M.I.N.D. Method™ structure.
Reviewed by real clients
Couples and individuals across Los Angeles and Orange County have shared their experience on Google and Yelp since 2009.
Proprietary M.I.N.D. Method™
A focused on results structure created to identify deep, hidden subconscious programming and essentially rewriting the code of our own identity which will extract the best versions of ourselves naturally. Drastically different than generic talk therapy.
Specializing in Marriage & Couples Work
Since 2009, couples have been coming to Self Help LA to completely transform their relationships so they can remember how it feels to fall in love all over again.
Find a location near you
Two Southern California offices. Online sessions statewide.
Meet in person at our Downey (LA County) or Santa Ana (Orange County) office. Or work with us from anywhere in California by video.
Los Angeles County
Downey Office
8531 Florence Ave, Suite 200
Downey, CA 90240
Serving Whittier, Cerritos, Lakewood, Norwalk, Long Beach & surrounding Los Angeles.
Orange County
Santa Ana Office
2101 North Main St, Suite C
Santa Ana, CA 92706
Serving Anaheim, Irvine, Tustin, Orange, Costa Mesa & surrounding Orange.
FAQ
Online marriage counseling, common questions
Don't see your question? Reach out, we typically respond within one business day.
Many couples do this work online. What matters is structure: understanding the wound, what each of you is protecting, and what rebuilding trust requires. We recommend video or in person depending on what serves each stage.
Begin
Marriage counseling, without the commute.
Book a private session. We'll help you name the pattern that's been running your relationship, and take the first real step toward changing it.