Marriage Counseling · LA · OC · Online California
Marriage Counseling in Los Angeles & Orange County
Licensed marriage counselors helping couples in Southern California rebuild trust, repair communication, and stop repeating the same painful cycles — using our proprietary M.I.N.D. Method™.
What marriage counseling treats
When the relationship doesn't fit the love anymore.
Communication Breakdown
The same fight, the same triggers, the same shutdown — week after week.
Trust & Infidelity
Disclosure, repair, and the long arc of rebuilding after betrayal.
Conflict Resolution
Stop escalating, stop avoiding — learn the protocols that actually de-escalate.
Intimacy & Connection
Reconnect emotionally, physically, and as a team — without performance pressure.
How we work
Evidence-based, not advice-based.
Our clinicians are trained in EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy), IFS, and somatic regulation — integrated inside The M.I.N.D. Method™ so every session has a place in the larger arc.
- Mapping — Identify the cycle keeping you stuck.
- Identity — Understand its emotional origin.
- through Neurological — Build new responses, not new resolutions.
- Deconstruction — Practice the relationship you want.
Related services & locations
Why clients choose us
Why Clients Choose Self Help LA / OC
A premium marriage counseling and individual therapy practice serving Los Angeles, Orange County, and all of California... built around a proprietary method, not a generic intake form.
Convenient Downey office
8531 Florence Ave, Suite 200 — serving Whittier, Norwalk, Long Beach & southeast LA County.
Convenient Santa Ana office
2101 North Main St, Suite C — serving Anaheim, Irvine, Tustin & central Orange County.
Online counseling across California
Secure sessions for clients anywhere in the state... same clinicians, same protocols.
5-star rated practice
Hundreds of 5 Star Google & Yelp reviews from couples and individuals across Los Angeles and Orange County since 2009.
Proprietary M.I.N.D. Method™
A proven, results oriented structure created to identify deep, hidden subconscious programming and essentially rewriting the code of our own identity which will extract the best versions of ourselves naturally. Drastically different than generic talk therapy.
Specializing in Marriage & Couples Therapy
For nearly 20 yrs couples have been coming to Self Help LA to completely transform their relationships so they can remember how it feels to fall in love all over again.
Find a location near you
Two Southern California offices. Online sessions statewide.
Meet in person at our Downey (LA County) or Santa Ana (Orange County) office. Or work with us from anywhere in California via secure, secure video.
Los Angeles County
Downey Office
8531 Florence Ave, Suite 200
Downey, CA 90240
Serving Whittier, Cerritos, Lakewood, Norwalk, Long Beach & surrounding Los Angeles.
Orange County
Santa Ana Office
2101 North Main St, Suite C
Santa Ana, CA 92706
Serving Anaheim, Irvine, Tustin, Orange, Costa Mesa & surrounding Orange.
FAQ
Marriage counseling — common questions
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Marriage counseling specifically addresses the legal, financial, and long-term commitment context of marriage — including infidelity recovery, in-law dynamics, parenting alignment, and long-term life planning — alongside the relational work shared with couples therapy.
Begin
Stop having the same fight.
Schedule a confidential 15-minute consultation. We'll match you with the right marriage counselor for your relationship and goals.
FREE · 15 MINUTES